What joyful outcome do you want from your relationship to spice things up?
Could it be to:
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ย Have more funย
ย Be more spontaneousย
ย Laugh moreย
ย Make love moreย
ย Have more regular datesย
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However you want to add that ‘va-voom’ in your relationship you need to…
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ย Make plansย
ย Action them andย
ย Remain consistent with those plansย
Some ways to move from the relationship boredom rut towards feeling more excited and emotional connected with your partner:
- Create a list together of what youโd like to change
- Change up the same old daily routine
- Surprise your partner with something you know theyโd like
- Mix up your environment, move your bedroom furniture around, add different coloured decor items around the place, maybe add some plants
- Wear something different
- Make an effort to sparkle up your appearance
- Start touching your partner more and show them how you feel through physical intimacy
- Go on regular dates. Take turns in planning dates, it keeps things different with a sense of intrigue
- Start flirting with your partner again, be a bit cheeky
- Consider taking up a new hobby together
- Work with a Couples Coach to guide you towards reconnection and finding your sparkle again
Maybe there are underlying problems that have led to boredom and disconnection with your partner.
Either way, if you want to enter a new phase of excitement, connection and affection in your relationship and need guidance and strategies – book in for Couples Coaching with Linda Kelly.
