Soul Mate Relationship with your Partner

In client sessions, I hear people talk about wanting to feel like โ€˜๐—ฆ๐—ข๐—จ๐—Ÿ ๐— ๐—”๐—ง๐—˜๐—ฆโ€™ with their partner again.ย ย Theyโ€™ll say when they first met each other, they felt like theyโ€™d met their ๐—ฆ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—น ๐— ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒโ€™.ย 

Fast forward years until now, their ๐˜€๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—น๐—ณ๐˜‚๐—น connection has been replaced, with other priorities, other commitments and general life stuff.

Social media, memes and articles all about โ€˜being soul mates with your partnerโ€™ all over the internet and itโ€™s quite glamourised.

But what is not really talked a about, is that being in a โ€˜๐—ฆ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—น ๐— ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒโ€™ type of relationship, takes
๐Ÿ’— ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜€ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ and
๐Ÿ’— ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ผ๐—น๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฎ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ ๐—–๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ to maintain that level of connection.

So bringing this back to being relevant when Iโ€™m working with couples who say they want to feel like each otherโ€™s โ€˜๐—ฆ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—น ๐— ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒโ€™again, itโ€™s about keeping it real for them.

Iโ€™ll ask them questions like: ๐ŸŒฟ โ€˜๐˜๐˜ง ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฐ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ด๐˜ถ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ โ€˜๐˜š๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ญ ๐˜”๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ดโ€™, ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ธ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ญ๐˜ฅ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ด๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ฑ ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฌ ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฌ๐˜ฆ?

๐ŸŒฟ โ€˜๐˜๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ญ๐˜ฅ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฐ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ๐˜ด ๐˜ฅ๐˜ช๐˜ง๐˜ง๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต๐˜ญ๐˜บ?โ€™

๐ŸŒฟ โ€˜๐˜ž๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฌ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ค๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜บ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ๐˜ค๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ?โ€™

So here, we begin to unfold and re-create what โ€˜๐—ฆ๐—ข๐—จ๐—Ÿ ๐— ๐—”๐—ง๐—˜โ€™means to them, to their unique definition, not to what society or what others say.

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